
Concentration
There is the game, and there is the face, of CONCENTRATION. With Iain there are both. For a simple game we cut holiday pictures from paper grocery sacks. The paper bags were printed with pumpkins, witches, ghosts, and bats. Iain and grandma spent some pleasant time at the dining room table naming them, sorting them, and turning them over and matching them. Later we drew them on his easel paper. If grandma draws the outline, then Iain puts in the eyes (his specialty right now) and maybe a mouth, a nose, and a mustache! Bags, wrapping paper, stickers--you can find a big inexpensive assortment of pictures for games, face-making, and storytelling. And when the interest dies, or the materials get worn out, they are recyclable. Iain's nice easel is from IKEA,as is the roll of newsprint ($6.99).
Concentration, Too
At two and a half, Iain is really showing an ability to concentrate on the interest at hand. Whether it is drawing, reading, or creating a story with his Playmobil trucks (seen lined up in the background), he can amuse himself quite well. It is important that he learns to do that. The self-talk, the singing and humming, and the soundtrack he creates are all helping him develop creativity and make sense of the big world.
There have been several articles lately about overscheduling children. The same is true at home. Of course, they need to hear you read stories, and have you help with art projects, and have you teach them how to play with toys, and have you join in a game, BUT children need to amuse themselves as well. Iain's imagination is far more vivid than grandma's! He can be Batman, Green Goblin, and Thomas the Tank Engine all in the space of 20 minutes and then drive his dump truck on an adventure (with motor sound effects) and make a quick run to look in the mirror at the end of the hall. You wonder how that mind is working, but you know that it is working.